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Choosing Bridesmaid Design Styles

Select Flattering Gowns for Your Attendants of All Shapes and Sizes

© Jennifer Gay

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Unless your bridesmaids are all the same shape and size, you owe it to them to choose designs that flatter their individual body types.

In the era of "Bridezillas", a woman who considers the comfort of her bridesmaids will be cherished in lasting memories. Especially for thinner ladies the comfort of plus-sized women is often overlooked. When selecting bridesmaid styles it's important to pick dresses that are both flattering and confidence inspiring for the walk down the aisle.

Communication is Key

If you're not open to the idea of letting your attendants select their own gown for your wedding day, talk to them about styles and designs that make them comfortable. Every woman has an idea of what look is best on her, and will be more than happy to talk about it. If you have your heart set on a particular look be certain that it will fit beautifully on a variety of shapes and sizes. Unhappy bridesmaids in dresses not suited to their body will only make your wedding party look uncomfortable and forced. The best wedding photos include happy women that feel elegant.

Accessorize to Flatter

Plus-size women may be uncomfortable in sleeveless or halter style gowns. To accommodate the entire bridal party, talk to the bridal shop about offering matching shoulder wraps to provide some modesty for those who feel less than flawless. This won't break up the continuity of matching gowns, but will instead allow each woman to decide just how much skin she's willing to bare.

Avoid form fitting styles if at all possible. Even the toned athletic types have areas they're uncomfortable with and a design that is flattering to all body style, like an empire waist is more likely to please the majority. Choose colors that are suitable to all skin tones and are naturally slimming. All women prefer a sleek, slimming appearance over a day-glow design that will draw attention to all the wrong places.

Plunging necklines may please the busty types but leave the less endowed bridesmaids feeling inadequate. Find a design that compliments a woman's style and embellishes what she's lacking while flattering her attributes. A good rule of thumb is that if a dress is in a style she's likely to wear again after the wedding, it's probably a good selection.

Turn a Nightmare into a Dream

No woman who loves you enough to stand up for you at your wedding is going to tell you she feels unattractive in your dress selection. If time permits, take your attendants to try on a variety of selections you have narrowed it down to and judge their reaction when wearing the dress. Be honest and try to look beyond your desire to plan every detail of the ceremony, and ask yourself if the dress design is truly flattering to your girls.

Many brides have the idea that they should be the most beautiful woman in the room on their wedding day. While this is partially true, bridesmaids should be looked at as gorgeous accessories to complement the bride. Accessories can turn an average woman into a runway-ready goddess.

Customized Unity

Contemporary wedding designers are developing more and more lines of bridesmaid dresses with custom options available. If your wedding party is diverse enough that one design simply won't suit all of the body types, look for a generalized style in matching colors that can be altered in small ways to flatter the wearer. The neckline, waist and length of a gown are areas that can be changed with relative easy while still maintaining an overall uniform look.

You have every right to look drop-dead gorgeous on your wedding day. Make sure the women who are closest to you feel just as special, and their focus will be on you instead of their discomfort. For more wedding fashion don't miss Wedding Gowns in Color and Fairytale Wedding Dress Designs.


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